Always One In A Crowd, AKA Every Group Has A Bad Apple

This is a post in a group I'm in on Facebook. Got to wonder why this person claims to have to family or friends to be executor of her will. It's a total mystery when you do shit like post a rude ass emoji on someone's photo of themselves. Overwhelming positive reaction otherwise, just this one putting in her bonny finger of distain.

I look at her page for the group and she has less points in the last 6 years than most of the people that reply to my posts generate in a day LOL. Literally has not one thing to say unless it's negative it seems. But there are just so many of those out there these days.

I go out of my way to give people opportunity to express how they are feeling and give them some positive words in reply. My posts are either completely positive or an excuse to let it all out and express your pain. I put a lot of time into caring about others, but you will always get some twat that is completely into themselves and has the personality of a rat with brain damage.

Got another one where I got people to say 3 or so of their accomplishments in life. There was a tone of really great replies and people saying good things to the people who replied - as it should be. Now, I've been on the low end of income my entire life and never been able to do things like climb mountains. Some of the stuff I've done is impressive but not for a general audience. So this guy replies, "I hope you have more to put on your epitaph then that." Another negative look at me kind of person who does not like it when others get more positive attention than them.

But being the group has 48,000 members or about, you can't go a week without tweaking the crazy people in the wrong direction so they express in the only way their limited mental capacity can - that being as a rude ass person who obviously is not well liked. After all, nothing pisses off a constantly angry and/or arrogant person more than others being liked when they are not. They literally do not have the capacity to understand that they are causing the people around them to dislike them. Ironically they see the person they dump on as attracting their moronic garbage replies and/or commentary.

Don't get me wrong, I get hundreds of replies to posts that are positive, or as intended, an outlet for their feelings in a safe way. The actual number of people that are angry at the rest of the world for no reason and willing to try and spoil your day is actually incredibly low, they just tend to be rather more vocal at times and we tend to notice the negative more for some reason - that is if you allow yourself to be bothered by it.

"Sometimes you have to be the light, because the tunnel never ends." That says it all I think. Be the light that others look to for comfort, not the darkness that only brings sadness and harm.

*NOTE: I removed the spacing in the comment portion to reduce space, it was getting rather long for a graphic.

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