July Blogging Challenge Day 27

Do you easily accept compliments? Or do you hate compliments?

I was going to say, "Who would not like to be complimented?" Then I remembered a guy I used to hang with a while back, and he hated it. He always thought there was something hidden in it that was supposed to hurt him. He could not see it as sincere.

As for me, I enjoy them, but I'm shy about it. I'll try to play it down most of the time. That is, unless I know the person well. Or, if online, I may just reply with a smilie or a thumbs up emoji. I really don't much know what to do with it if it's not a friend. But I'll take it happily.

There are of course times that fellow I used to run with it correct, they have a negative motive for it and it's meant in a very pointed way. The thing is, in text form, it's almost impossible to know that at all.

Time was when a false compliment was extremely uncommon and considered extremely bad taste. These days, people seem to have almost no tact at all and say and do things with no regard to the feelings of the other person at all. They only tend to care for themselves.

People dump on Gen X, but we only go after people when they deserve it. The younger folk seem to often just like to hurt people. Sure as kids it happened on the playground with Gen X, but we grew the fuck up and became actual humans - not some self-interested twat that cares less for anyone else. This is why marriage falls apart so often now - selfishness and the inability to care for the others feelings. They seem to fake it to start, then loose patents doing so, and it's over.

But back to me. Compliments feel good, even if I'm unsure of the genuine nature of them. I practice a thing every day where I compliment myself several times a day. Positive self-reinforcement for my depressive brain. It helps a lot I find. I'm not a fan of this, "Just think positive shit," because I know it's literally not possible for people at times - but I do this every day, and for me it helps.

This being said, I don't tend to need the compliments - I do things for my own desire to do them and express myself in many ways, simply for the joy of doing so.

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